We are in the process of the divorce and will continue to proceed forward.
I dated a man for about 4 months..then sent an email to end the relationship because he decided he was not ready to be involved with anyone.
The separated ladies I dated definitely weren't having their cake and eating it too like you describe.
Hopefully you will all have fun meeting singles and try out this online dating thing...
Remember that we are the largest free online dating service, so you will never have to pay a dime to meet your soulmate.
Separation is a totally subjective situation to be in. I've been separated since March of 2006, filed for divorce the week I left, no chance of reconciliation, and the only "contact" I have had with him AT ALL was at the hearing when he sued me for spousal support.
I live alone, support myself, assist my 20 y/o daughter to live on her own and pay spousal support. You don't want to date me because I'm "still married"?
I don't want to date you because anyone who is that "black and white" about life isn't ready for the compromises that a relationship requires.