They like to feel in control and create time frames that suit them, often treating the woman like a puppet on a string.20.
They don’t like structure, particularly in their personal life.21.
They hate planning ahead because that means commitment.30.
They have very little furniture or don't own property or a car, as these represent commitment.
This is because they subtly want to give the woman the message that they don’t want a long term, committed relationship.7. They can’t make the decision to give totally to the relationship, but they can’t commit to walk away either. They feel love for the woman when they don’t see her, but they want to run away when they become involved again.8. This may happen after one night, one week, one month, three months or one year.
They may start sabotaging just as they are about to get married, or just before or after there's a decision made to move in together.9.
Commitment-phobic men may display some or many of the following behaviors:1.
They have a history of short relationships or have never been married.
They use these differences as excuses to end relationships.15.
Commitment-phobic men are tortured souls full of fear.
They are in a constant state of emotional conflict because of their negative irrational beliefs about love, commitment and relationships.
They tend to treat the woman like a mistress rather than a real girlfriend.11.
They tend to limit the amount of time they spend with the women and treat her as a low priority.13.