Getting into a relationship with married men We love helping people we like out of troubling situations.And admit it, you’d love a man who’s a mess, if he likes you. But when he looks towards you for emotional support and love, the same things his own wife, apparently, doesn’t provide him, you end up falling in love, more with his emotional affairs rather than anything else.In the past they used the term “eligible” to describe a guy who was a good candidate for longterm love and possibly marriage.We might want to reinstate that term, to help keep matters clear from the start.The realization – Being used by a married man When I was involved with a married man, I felt terribly used.
It’s insulting, especially when he says you mean so much to him, but that’s the life you have to accept. And every time you ask him to walk out of his relationship, it would just lead to frustrated tears. And at times, it can take years for you to accept the love of a genuine man you meet later in life.He’d love you physically, but his emotions still stay with his real family.This can piss off just about anyone, especially when they’re so madly in love, but the promise of better things to come in the ‘near’ future and the sex is just too good of a promise to spurn the advances of a married man.All you start talking about is the good times both of you share every day.And then, one fine day, just before hanging up he says, “Sweetheart, if only I wasn’t married, I would be so in love with you. The beginning of the end The real dark story unveils here.That one conversation in the office cubicle takes you all the way to the coffee shop, the snack bar, the restaurant, and the movie hall.Both of you end up talking about it over the phone, and at some point of time, there’s a total block of his family turmoil.She soared to the top of Strictly Come Dancing's leaderboard last weekend, coming in at a close second this Saturday.But recent reports claim that Alexandra Burke is secretly furious with her dance partner Gorka Marquez over claims he is dating co-star and fellow competitor Gemma Atkinson- fearing it could affect her chances of winning.The little innocent doe in you (in most cases) braves itself up and walks curiously ahead. He’s a married man, and you know you don’t want to fall, but he’s such an emotional wreck, and the most striking part of it all is, he’s totally in love with you. Now, you warm up to him to shower him with happiness, and the next thing you know, you’re snogging him in hallways of movie theaters and bouncing off walls in your apartment, all in the purpose of making him a happier man! You’re dating a married man, and you want him all for yourself.You’re flattered to know he loves you, no man who’s so sweet has ever told you something like that. [Read: Cheating in a relationship] And unknown to you, you’re preparing yourself for the inevitable. The wife and the other woman The worst part of all this is that you’d never really want to be in this place, but somehow, you find yourself here. All of a sudden, you’re not just another nice girl.