Other times, they don’t disappear, but wind up marrying you, so they can continue to take everything they can from you, often ruining your credit, bank account, and life!
Don’t think that you are the only one they are married to while they are doing this either!
One of the biggest and most common problem that arises is lying.Men lie most about age, height, and income, while women lie most about weight, physical build, and age.So, the guy who says he is 40 years old, 6’2, brown hair and blue eyes, and earns 100K per year, just might not be anything like that when you meet him.Studies are also show that women are having sex sooner than later, and are not being safe about that either. Lying about who you are is no good way to start a relationship. Many men are listed on these sites in several states, and are playing games with numerous women. Continue using email as the form of correspondence between you and the person you are getting to know for longer than you think you should, before giving them your phone number.With statistics like these, online dating appears scary! You are only asking for trouble if you mislead men, by having an overly sexy name they are associating you with, such as bustybabe69, or hot4u2nitexxx. When they find out you have lied, they may be furious, which gives you a bad situation to deal with. Ask for as many recent photos of them as you can, and share yours too. You don’t want to have to change your number often if you start to get uncomfortable or harassed by this person. Don’t have this “stranger” pick you up in their car.Ladies, I understand that you are lonely and would like companionship, but you need to educate yourselves, and take precautions! As exciting as the attention may be, you are NOT in a race to meet someone. A lot of people post photos of themselves anywhere from 5-20 years ago! If you want to talk sooner, get their number, and block yours before calling them. Before meeting them for the first time, leave their name, phone number, and meeting place with a friend. When meeting someone for the first time, and possibly the 2nd and 3rd date too, it will minimize potential danger if you are surrounded by people. You may be trapped and not free to leave if becoming uncomfortable.Compromising your safety and/or life does not need to be the price to pay for a date. If any serious problem arises, they (and you) can be tracked down easier and faster. Being in their car gives them all of the control of where you are going and when you are returning home. When you start dating someone seriously, remove your profile from the site and ask them to do so as well.The internet has become a place men use to seek women, teenagers and children, to take advantage of.Sadly, the internet is the playground that predators use to lure women, for the purpose of performing scams, abductions, rapes, and murders.These statistics are showing that since 10% of members are scammers and another 10% are some type of sex offender, your odds of ending up in a bad situation are already 20%.Then add the 51% that are already spoken for, and your odds of meeting a normal, available person decrease greatly.