Subject: Inside the mind of a Cakeman (married lover/cheating husband) You took interview of a Mistress/ Other woman "Inside the Mind of a Mistress" . I don't understand why it's so hard to just keep a commitment. Can't people wait 5 years if it means sticking to your commitment? Life time commitments and working at a relationship are going the way of the dinosaur. There is an excellent book out by Dan Ariely, Predictably Irrational and in one it's chapters it describes a study that he did that shows how dramatically your decision making is affected when you are aroused. That the wife has not to face questions of her neighbors?I also read hundred articles about mistress and other woman. Moreover, what is it with people who want to have their cake, etc, etc? The bottom line here is a relationship of infidelity based upon deceit and lying, hardly the foundation for starting a healthy relationship with someone new. I would like to ask your opinion of a married man who is only interested in his wives girlfriends. That the children has not to be asked in the school by their classmates and friends? Why should only the mistress/other woman be exposed and being asked always? A mistress also is a daughter of someone, a sister, she also belongs to a family.As a request I would plead you to write something on Indian Arranged marriages!!! I was busy with audits & traveling but finally checked email.You took interview of a Mistress/ Other woman "Inside the Mind of a Mistress" . He had emailed me several times asking to bring samples by, and then finally lunch.It happened before we were each separated/divorced. That the children has not to be asked in the school by their classmates and friends? Why should only the mistress/other woman be exposed and being asked always? A mistress also is a daughter of someone, a sister, she also belongs to a family.We were both in overbearing, underloving marriages. The cakeman is also liable to answer back and give explanation of why he does this. Why only the Mistress/ Other woman should hurt always? You appear to be unaware of the myriad ways in which dating a married man (or woman) can be just fine.I suspect you're calming personal fears, or perhaps appealing to a bruised demographic. It made my break up a piece of cake when I objectively read each point! He finally ended up marrying the last woman he cheated with. The problem is there is no Loyalty in the world left or almost none. I think it is laziness to keep an affair going whilst still married. While the commentor above, David Kaplan, does rightly point out that sometimes a cheater or cheaters wind up together long term or even married.
This was a highly pressured, sweep me off my feet kind of whirwind romance - he offered everything in the world...
He tried to sell me products for our school & asked for my email.
I gave him an email address that I rarley check since I am used to people trying to sell schools on their products.
He and I have a lot of the same interest & we work in the same industry & know many of the same people.
I met a man about 18 months ago through work @ a yearly conference for schools in our state.